Little things do matter when it comes to building a happy
relationship or marriage. There are certain things that women can do to
keep things in check from their end. Some women do some things that can
cause irreparable harm to their relationship. They are:
- Nagging
Constantly complaining and finding faults in your spouse sends a
message that he is not good enough for you. Always obsessing over the
imperfections of your partner is just intentionally walking over
troubled water. Of course, Constructive criticisms are welcome if it is
for the good of the relationship. What makes it unbearable is doing it
in the presence of family and friends. This could definitely ruin any
happy relationship.
- Lack of Appreciation
Not appreciating him enough is one of the major causes of resentment
in a relationship. If your partner does something to make you happy,
tell him. This would make him smile. Let him know you see his efforts,
don’t quibble on his shortcomings all the time.
- Having Annoying Expectations
Pressuring him to do things that are obviously beyond his
expectations is a way to slowly mess up your relationship. If you want a
new car or a bigger house, but your Partner is not financially buoyant,
try to understand the situation. Encourage him rather than bug him. He
would buy you a better car than you expect when he has the resources.
- Withholding Affections
Every woman needs to understand the need to show affections. Every
day should be a new day to nourish your bond. Yes, there is work to do,
you got your career, kids, chores and everything to manage. Do not get
too busy and forget your man. Lack of intimacy leads to Physical and
Emotional shutdown.
- Giving Silent Treatment
This is very common behavior among women that wrecks a relationship.
Keeping your feelings bottled up and waiting for him to ask and ask is
not the way to go. Your attitude might make matters worse. He is no
magician! He might not be able to figure out what is actually wrong with
you. Do not close communication, it never solves problems.
If you are guilty of any of these behaviors listed above, you are
only putting your relationship at great risk. Every relationship has its
challenges, but you can keep yours in check by not exhibiting any of
these characters above.
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